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How to Break Busy Bitches

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multitasking girlHave you ever tried to date a girl who always seems too busy?  She’s either late for a meeting, has another social engagement, or has a hair and nail appointment before her massage. Whatever the case, she has relegated you to begging for a half an hour time slot in her busy schedule.

These women are always in their heads and always thinking about the future. They have a tough time living in the present moment. You wonder if they even want to get to know anyone.

Here’s the deal with these broads. They tend to be career oriented overachievers who are afraid of their feelings (usually due to the fact that their parents were highly critical and never praised them for their achievements).

Deep down they believe in romance, but are deathly afraid of exposing their weak side to anyone. They tend to write things like “Just looking to make new friends.” and “No hookups” on their dating profiles.

In an effort to protect their fragile egos, these girls will try to be social while keeping suitors at a safe distance from their hearts, and desperately try to make themselves emotionally unavailable. In doing so, they will inevitably try to be control freaks in any dating situation. They will insist on choosing the time, place, and duration of your date, if you let them.

The key in relating to them is to disarm them of this power right away without letting them know that you are doing so.

When you ask her out on a weeknight, always ask if she has any other plans for that evening. If she tells you that there’s something else she needs to do, postpone the date and tell her you don’t want to rush her. Tell her you’d rather hang out when she has more time.

She will try to make you part of her packed schedule, but you should not let her. Remember, these are all just subconscious defense mechanisms that she is employing, dysfunctional behavior that is keeping her from the intimacy that secretly craves. It’s amazing to see how the tables turn once she relinquishes her power and allows herself to fall for you.

She may also try to control other aspects of the date, such as driving separate cars, not drinking alcohol, etc. You must take control from her, show disapproval over such tactics and force her be present with you.

Select topics that are relevant to the present like the weather, something she’s wearing, the food etc. Forcing her to stay in the now will allow her to show you the the person behind the image.

Of course, the strongest way to get her into the present and force her to show her sexual attraction to you is by initiating the kiss. Be aware that your timing on this move is critical and you must test her readiness to receive the kiss before you plant one on her. Ignoring your timing without proper kino escalation can lead you to initiate prematurely and often to an awkward rejection. Always make sure you have all of your ducks in a row before proceeding. For more info on this read the article, The Kiss Close

Once you disarm her schedule defense and her other methods of control, you will be able to capture her attention, her lips and the rest is cake.

 

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  1. Craig

    I like to fight fire with fire. If she cancels last minute or flakes, I reschedule and cancel last minute on her. Then I reschedule way out, like 3 weeks. It puts their egos in check and gets them inline most of the time.

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